subject: Save Your Relationship - Book [print this page] You're about to study the initial methods on how to save your relationship. It doesn't matter if you are divorced, separated, or just broken up - this information very much applies to you.
When a relationship ends, it's ALWAYS preceded by obvious signs. Most of us never pay sufficient attention to these signs - as a concern of fact, we aren't even aware that there were any loud cautionary signals. So when the breakup arrives, it hits us as a ton of bricks.
That's where the good news arrives in. You see, the fact that you are broken up does not mean that you can't make it work out once more. Let's take a look at the most critical things you want to know:
Allow your ex his/her space
You are maybe dying to contact your ex right now. You can do this if you desire this breakup to be permanent. On the other hand, if you do want to save your relationship, please will not fall into this trap - do not call, text, email or anything else. You must to give your ex the space she/he needs right now. It is a crucial part of saving your relationship.
Don't gossip!
You may be tempted to speak to your contacts about your ex's shortcomings, to make yourself feel better about the breakup. Whatever you do, resist that temptation. Right now you are in a very frail emotional state, and every negative opinion you share with someone else regarding your ex and relationship is bound to be blown a bit out of proportion. And bear in mind, even a companion can have a slip of the tongue. You do not want something like that coming back to your ex.
Enjoy life - take time alone!
Although it may seem like it, your ex isn't the only one in must of space right now - you are too. This is actually a fine thing. All you need to keep in mind is that the two of you are going to get back together again. Rest in this knowledge, and go spend time with friends, etc - enjoy your life! Just be YOU. Because guess what? That YOU is the very individual your ex fell for when your relationship started. It makes you a hundred times more desirable to your ex.
Take responsibility
Whether or not something is your fault or not (in the relationship), take ownership of it - scan yourself to find somewhere you can find responsibility. This may sound surprising, but if you practice this while being away from your ex, you will be blown away at how well things will work whilst you two reunite.
