subject: Make Him Want You Back - And Looking Good In The Process? [print this page] What should you do when nothing else works? When showering your ex with attention and gifts doesn't seem to make him come your way anymore? Well, you hold your head high and go your own way and make him want you back.
Maybe it was something you did. Or maybe it was you. Whatever the reason is, you want him back and you want HIM to WANT YOU back as well. Problem is, he seemed to have moved on and doesn't quite want you back in his life just as yet.
For starters, to even begin considering the possibility to make him want you back, you must stop chasing him. Just remember that anything you chase in life will run away. Try to think back to your first experience when you tried to catch a mouse. How did it respond? It probably ran for their life. Lesson learnt? Don't chase. Set a trap and you will have them curiously coming your way. And before they know what is happening, you have them in the palm of your hands.
The most important thing you can do is to focus on yourself. For now, you have to focus on making yourself happy without depending on anyone else. You have to learn to love yourself and to be comfortable in your own skin before you can expect others to genuinely love you back.
Now that you have so much free time as a single and fabulous woman, think of all the activities that you have always wanted to do. Pick up a new hobby or a sport that will excite you. Put yourself out there, go out more and meet new people. Trust me, good things will happen when you have good intentions behind all your efforts.
Another factor to consider is the physical you. Use all that frustration, heart break and pain as your motivation and get in shape and look good. Consider getting a makeover to uncover the NEW AND IMPORVED hot version of yourself that no one knew was hiding beneath that skin all these years. Throw that glasses away, get contact lenses, get a great new haircut and go shopping for a new wardrobe. This will be the most FUN part of the process to make him want you back.
Another trick is to remember that people always want what they can't have. So take your fabulous new self and start dating other people. Chances are, he will start to wonder why you are not interested in him anymore and will miss your company. And after a while, it will make him want you back. This may sound a little weird. However, I know of someone who did this twice. And it worked, TWICE!
In the end, what you are trying to do is to remind him of the person he fell in love with. If you can jolt his memories on why he fell in love with you, you will slowly but surely make him want you back. Try to be that person to him again with the newer and improved version of you looking smoking hot and brimming with confidence.
Make Him Want You Back - And Looking Good In The Process?
