subject: Negligees Were Meant For Play [print this page] When was the last time you put on something sheer and sexy for the man in your life? For women these days that work, have kids and a home to care for, sometimes they forget where it all started. That great guy that used to turn you on so much just might be feeling a little neglected! If the last romantic encounter the two of you had is a little fuzzy and faded away, then it's probably time to spice it up a bit one more time. Nothing revives a marriage or partnership like a special night planned for love.
When you plan your next romantic encounter, don't throw on one of the same old tired gowns or camisoles he has seen twenty times, order something very special ahead of time and you can do it right at home. Using the Internet to order some new intimate apparel is all the rage for housewives these days. Who has time to shop from store to store trying to find something suitable for what you have in mind? On trip to your home computer can get you the sexy stuff you want delivered right to your door.
Once you have located just the right alluring ensemble, then you have the rest of the evening to plan as well. You certainly do not want to have the kids in the house if it can be helped, so make plans for an overnight babysitter for them away from home. This is the only most likely way you will not be interrupted. You will be able to focus all of your attention on each other and make the most of the time you have set aside for just that.
Make sure you plan enough activities that will make the night last for a little longer than you normally have together. A quiet dinner with music and candles can never send the wrong signals. You can make the night a complete surprise or let him in on it if you choose. The surprise could be on you when your guy is caught unaware and he has had a really hard day. Letting him know what you have in mind not only gives him something to anticipate all day long, but he is likely to take it a little easier on himself so he will not be all worn out before he gets home to you.
Make that new negligee work for you! Put on your sexiest self and show him what is still there when it seems like the two of you are getting lost in the shuffle of everyday family life. Home and hearth are very important to most couples, but that does not mean you can not always have special moments from time to time for just for the two of you. That is the very thing that makes most long time couples last!