subject: Sucka Free Love [print this page] Author: Author: . nelson" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/vonda-g.-nelson/339726.htm">vonda g. nelson
Sucka free Love really exist....it's all a matter of what you choose to put up with. Pay attention to those red flags that conveniently pop up like a jack in the box. 1.Inconsistancies....compare your relationship to a math problem, if it doesn't add up....it just isn't right!There is always an exception to the rule, but in this case, the exception will be rare 2.Major story telling for absolutely no reason 3. Even though it may seem you two are in a relationship. Nine times out of ten you aren't. Get hip to this new word,convenience relationship on their part of course. Don't get too attached for you will experience a rude awakening and you will find it very difficult to accept the truth as well as be emotionally stable. 4. Mental abuse 5. Shady behavior: Always wants to use your personal information ie: social security number, credit card, ID for your personal information for their own benefit or continuously need you to use your identity for their benefit 6. They naturally expect you will do whatever they ask of you. But the same can't be expected if the tables are turned. 7. Never take responsibility for their own actions...they just can't admit to being so horrible....poor you! 8. Forever talking in third person 9. Is very accepting of and is comfortable around disfunctional behaviors of any kind. 10. Don't be fooled into thinking that anything is ever going to be about you. Everything revolves around them, this you will see. Their greatest deception comes from making you believe that which they want you to. 11. There is no truth when it comes to keeping "their word" Expect to be disappointed more times than one. Taking this type of individual seriously would mean you have a strong liking for playing russian roulette. Nine times out of ten you will be left holding the bag, clueless with what you must do next. You must love suprises for indeed you will get alot dealing with this scatter brain. FYI: Great relationships consist of great times, Consistency, Commitment, Stability, Acceptance, Truth and Love Being in a healthy relationship allows you to benefit because due to sharing and truly caring. People in close relationships have a built in emotional and physical support system. Having someone to provide and care for them in their time of need, not only makes them happier, but allows them to live longer. Having a romantic relationship provides resources as well as benefits for both individuals in moving ahead in life. When you have someone close to share and trade resources with, your life and lifestyle flows much smoother. People make better decisions with less stress and anxiety when they know that someone is attentive to their needs and concerns. Overall people in romantic relationships monitor each others potentially destructive behavior and make attempts to stop each other from doing things that may be harmful. For example, individuals in close relationships often try to get their romantic partners to quit smoking, drink less, curb their drug use, etc. Give and take takes place in romantic relationships minus disrespectful motives and agendas. Vonda G. Nelson About the Author:
