subject: How To Tell If Your Ex Want To Get Back With You [print this page] Sometimes it is possible to mend a broken relationship but reading the signs that show if your ex wants to get back with you can be difficult.
After a relationship break up, just how do you tell if your ex wants to get back together?
If your ex is showing interest in spending time with you or even flirting with you, it is natural to hope that they want to rekindle the relationship. It is important though that you do not mis-read these signs and jump the gun.
When a relationship breaks down, there is a natural feeling of longing to get back together or missing your ex on both sides, especially if it was a long term relationship of over one year.
Your ex will miss you anyway because of the good times you shared, happy memories of being together and possibly regret that things did not work out differently.
If your ex is now:
"showing more interest in you
"asking to spend more time with you and meet up,
"flirting with you
Then it is a good sign they are also thinking the same question "Does my ex want to get back with me?"
Sometimes though, your ex may have another motive. Perhaps they have seen that you still love them and as there are no other prospective on the horizon you will be a quick "good time". Maybe they are simply craving attention following the relationship break up; it is human nature to want what we can"t have!
The worst case scenario is they want to get back at you for some perceived wrong and they are playing with you.
If you are getting signs and signals that your ex wants to come back, take things slowly and test the water first. Play a little hard to get, don"t rush straight back into a full blown relationship.
If your ex does want to get back with you playing a little hard to get is the best course of action because it will help prevent you getting hurt again if they are not intending to come back. It will also make your ex work harder if they are serious and is probably what caused the renewed attraction in the first place!
