subject: Dealing With Breakups - How To Get Over Someone You Love [print this page] Author: Erica Connella Author: Erica Connella
Getting over someone you love is not an easy process. It takes time and is very painful. You have to be ready to go through stress, pain, tension and all kinds of feelings. But, if you are prepared and you are strong enough, you will do it. Dealing with breakups will depend on your self-control. Let me tell you that even after one or two years, you can think of the person and still feel pain. This is quite normal; it doesnt mean that you didnt get over yet. I am just telling you that this is a feeling you may never be able get over if it was a relationship that counted much for you. It is possible that you never forget the person. But, I am not implying that you will be sad throughout your whole life. It will just be something partial, whenever you think of the person. The most complex moment will be just after the break up. If you have just broken up with the one you love, then I will advise you to accept the pain. As people say, the sooner you face something the sooner it is going to be over. So, face it instead of running away. I can understand how much it will hurt, but remember that whatever you are doing is for your best. To help you go over this phase quickly you must get rid of personal belongings that remind you of your ex. For some people, dealing with break ups can be so hard that you may need assistance to go through this. Professional help can be something very supportive as they will provide you with better ideas according to your style of living and to the type of relationship you shared. Dont hesitate in seeking the help of a third party as it can bring you good you didn't imagine.About the Author:
Get Over Someone You Love - No matter how many times you feel like visiting the counselor or the therapist, it is not a big deal as far as you know you are feeling better. Bon courage!
