subject: Positive Self Confidence - How to Gain Self Confidence in 7 Steps [print this page] Positive self-confidence? Some people seem born with confidence. Sure, for some people, this attitude is natural, how can do it too? Read on for steps 7 through positive self-confidence now!
1 - Eye Contact
Maintain eye contact with someone you know is essential, human beings are able to interact in many ways other than verbally, and making eye contact is one of the most important tools we have to communicate. Unconsciously, often judge that we are in this way and people are suspicious that not meet the eye. You will appear to foreigners as person with great self confidence and, above all, have confidence more positive if you can make and keep eye contact. (Be careful not to look though! ) And remember that this feature is limited to human beings, do not try with your dog your neighbor as dogs perceive direct eye contact as a threat!
2 - Be Aware
This is very important - sometimes we are so worried about how they are perceived to ignore people around us. But if you focus and take the time the next time you need to get into that dreaded room full of strangers, you'll probably realize that not everyone is watching and desperate to find fault with you! And if you focus on them, you are much less likely to worry about yourself!
3 - Posture and body language
Everything is on the strut! Take action smooth, positive and move constantly, never hurry. Raise your head and keep your back straight - I bet your parents told you that in school! Well, they were right - focus on implementing its new position and will soon be going strong!
4 - Stay the best condition with every circumstances
Perhaps a bit exaggerated, but never underestimate the importance of looking splendidly. Lack of confidence can often be the result of dissatisfaction with the way you look and feel. Have you been using the same brand of jeans in the last ten years? Or even the couple themselves? The same makeup? And the hair? Always buy the same style of shoes?
5 - Smile!
This is a simple - but very effective! Smile at a stranger every day, you could even throw in a 'good morning' if you like! This simple strategy can do wonders for your confidence. And if they ignore you, just accept that the alien is confident less positive than that. Go and treat the person coming!
Positive Self Confidence - How to Gain Self Confidence in 7 Steps
