subject: Break Up Advice For Men, 5 Faq [print this page] When a relationship ends it can be difficult to find constructive ways to move on. Your self-esteem may be low, you may feel worthless, you spend so much time thinking about your ex girlfriend and why you broke up.
While these feelings are natural it is all too easy to fall into self destructive patterns that stop you from moving on and drive your ex girlfriend further away.
Common Questions Men Ask About Breaking Up With Their Girlfriend.
1.Why did my girlfriend break up with me?
If your girlfriend did not give you a reason and ended the relationship with vague statements like "I need space" or "it's not you, it is me", it may be she simply does not know herself why she ended the relationship. Women get emotional sometimes and often can not pin point exactly why they feel as they do. Don't waste energy trying to analyse the situation, accept the break up so you can move on.
2.Should I ask my ex girlfriend why the relationship ended?
Do not fall into a pattern of constantly calling, texting or e-mailing your ex girlfriend. If you did not get an answer the first time you asked your ex girlfriend why she ended the relationship, you will not get one by repeatedly contacting her. The only thing you will achieve is to drive her further away and you will feel more frustrated and depressed.
3.I know where my ex girlfriend will be at certain times, should I go there and "accidently" meet her?
No! Do you want to be seen as a stalker? You will not get any straight answers from your ex, especially in a public place. Repeatedly arranging to "accidently" see your ex girlfriend stops you from getting over the relationship and drives her further away.
4.Should I apologise to my ex?
Unless you have done something wrong, do not apologise.
5.I want my ex girlfriend back, what should I do?
Accept the break up so you can focus on moving on. Forget about the relationship for a while and put your energy into something else. Go out, socialise and network, have some fun. Set some realistic goals about expanding your repertoire when it comes to seduction and meeting people.
I bet you are thinking "how will that help me get back with my ex?" This strategy does two things, first it gives you time to evaluate what you want in a relationship and if you do actually want your girlfriend back. Secondly, it gives your ex girlfriend chance to miss you. It is human nature to want what they can not have, and you may find your ex makes the first move and starts making contact again.
Give yourself a couple of months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.
