subject: I Dumped My Girlfriend And Now I Want Her Back [print this page] Author: Erica Connella Author: Erica Connella
Dumping a girlfriend and wanting her back is probably the worse thing that can happen to you. This is not going to be a cup of tea. Even if she wants you too, you will have to pay for all the pains, the disgrace and the embarrassments you gave her. And you are going to pay that with interest. But nothing is impossible and if you are ready, but lack ideas of how to get her back, then read on. Instead of calling her hundred times a day or sending her expensive gifts, be responsible for your acts. Be reasonable, practical and realistic. Plan a speech to explain why you acted like you did. Take your time, think well and be honest with yourself and with her when its time to clarify yourself. Go somewhere nice to talk about this, sit down and have some coffee. Be calm and convincing. If your things like an admission of guilt, an excuse and a promise that never such thing will occur in the future again are required, dont hesitate. Your aim is to get her back, so do everything possible to make it happen if you really want her back. What you did may just be the outcome of your fear of getting engaged in a more serious relationship. I know guys usually are alarmed when they see their relationship taking a serious turn. Perhaps this is what you need to make clear with your ex. I understand you are desperate to get her back and as you are at fault, you are even ready to be her yes man. But you really don't have to bear all her annoyance, anger and irritation. You admitted your culpability, now be firm. And most important, be sincere with yourself. You must want her back because you have feelings for her and not just because you are feeling bad about how you reacted and treated her.About the Author: