subject: Got a Low Down Cheating Spouse On Your Hands - You're Going to Need Help and Support [print this page] If you've found out that your important other is engaged an affair--or even if you believe your spouse is cheating!--then you're most likely on an volatile roller coaster right now. A cheating spouse will do that to you! But you don't have to go through it on your own, either. In fact, you absolutely shouldn't go through this time alone.
It's vital that you have some sort of support network on your side, even if this network just is made up of one person. It's important to have someone who can be on your side when you feel like quitting, and point out things you may be missing.
Family should be one of the first sources most of us will go to. Of course you do need to get on with someone in your family to make this doable!
Even if you do or don't have a family you can turn to, you might decide you want to turn to a friend or friends to support you with your cheating spouse. Friends are also a good place to go to for support. In tough times, we often look to our friends before we look to family for support.
When it comes to a cheating spouse (or a suspected one), it can be extremely hard to keep trust and faith in anyone or anything. That's when, pretty much, a trusted friend can make all the difference.
A counselor is another way to find help and support you should seriously think about when you're coping with a cheating spouse. Not only do counselor's go through training in how to help you and help you from going down the wrong route. Quality counselors have experience with cases like yours and can help point you through the up and down conflict.
Then there are support groups. Nothing will assist you like meeting with other people who have gone through just what you're dealing with right now: your cheating spouse.
Most of all, you'll come away feeling understood and feeling better.
When you've been badly hurt and betrayed, nothing will help you more than talking to someone who's been through the same thing.
You already know that discovering out that you have a cheating spouse on your hands is a major trauma, challenging and can leave you questioning and mistrusting everything and in particular yourself, so don't try and go through this on your own! Get support!
Got a Low Down Cheating Spouse On Your Hands - You're Going to Need Help and Support
