subject: When a Man Says He’s Busy All the Time – What it Means and How to Change It [print this page] Author: Gillian Reynolds Author: Gillian Reynolds When a man says hes busy all the time it can be a bit confusing to the woman hes involved with. This is an all too common scenario in many relationships. The couple starts out completely enamored with each other but over time something changes. He may not pick up the phone to call you as often as he once did, hell take longer to call you back and hell be much busier than he was in the early days of the relationship. You can feel the shift in the dynamic of the relationship but its so subtle that its hard to put your finger on exactly what has changed. The fact of the matter is that when a man continually comes up with excuses for why he cant spend time with you hes losing interest fast. Many men just arent good with confrontation so when their feelings for you shift, theyd rather let the relationship die a slow death than tell you thats it over. When a man says hes busy all the time and he just doesnt make an effort to be there for you, hes not emotionally invested in what you two share anymore. This comes as a completely shock to many women as they cant understand what caused the shift. You may be surprised to learn that in the dating stage of a relationship men can be turned off by the smallest things. If youve done something that he has found unattractive or unappealing he may decide the relationship and you just arent worth it anymore. Some examples of things that men find unappealing are pushing him for an exclusive relationship too soon, calling him non-stop just to say hi, or even being overly emotional around him. If it strikes him as unattractive, he may wash his hands of the relationship. For a man unwilling to make the effort to tell you its over, hell say things like hes too busy to see you or hell give you unbelievable excuses for why he cant get together. There is a way to change things before its too late. Loads of dating advice suggests that when you feel ignored by your man the best thing to do is tell him. Although this may work with some men, many men will pull back even more if you try this. Your best move right now is to start treating him like a friend. Dont pressure him into a long discussion regarding the future of the relationship. Instead, stop asking him to spend time with you and when you do call him, make it infrequent and keep the calls short. If he feels the pressure is off him, hell start to open up to you again.About the Author:
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