subject: Good Relationships And Money [print this page] There are many problems that trouble relationships but one affects every relationship at one time or another. The problem that continuously comes up in relationships is money. Money will affect every relationship in one way or another, so let us make sure that we are prepared for tough times as well as the times where money is not a problem.
Money seems to always be tight, especially in today's economy, so making sure this economy and money will not cause you any pain in your relationship is key. Begin by taking some time and writing down everything that you buy or spend money on in a given month. If it is easier on you, keep a log of everything that you spend money on, whether it is through credit, your bank account or with cash. Once you have done this, go back and look at where you can cut back and remove things from your list that you don't need. Make a plan to spend more wisely. Take a look at the things you have written down on your list and take note of anything you can save or totally remove from the list. Buying in bulk, sales and coupons are some good ideas for you to look into.
Making sure money does not run your life is another key factor in keeping your relationship alive and well. Money is a very key aspect of not only your relationship, but of your own life as well. You must remember that while money is a very important aspect of life, it is not the most important thing in your life. You have to find a balance. Trying to work and make more money, putting in overtime and taking on other jobs to supplement your income will put a major strain on all your relationships. You have to remember that there are only 24 hours in a day and if you are working 18 hours of that, there is no time for your loved ones.
One last thing for working your way out of problems with money and keeping your relationship on track is to share these things with your partner. Once you have found out ways that you can cut back and manage your own situation better, go ahead and share this with the other person you are in a relationship with. This way you both can work together on making better money decisions and they can hold you accountable to the things that you want to work on.
It is important to remember through this whole thing that communication with your partner is the key to success. There is no need to hide your financial struggles, as they probably have some sort of knowledge of the situation already. Be open and communicate these things with your partner so you both are on the same page.
