subject: If Your Girlfriend Dumped You And You Want Her Back - Use These Very Effective Techniques [print this page] Author: Author: . L. Archer" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/h.-l.-archer/232061.htm">H. L. Archer
If your girlfriend has recently told you she needs space, what did you do? Did you panic and start crying and begging her to change her mind? Or did you stand up strong and tell her that you were fine with it and could use some space yourself. These two reactions to her needing space are worlds apart and so are the results they will obtain. If your girlfriend dumped you and you want her back, there are some very effective techniques that will turn things around to your favor and have her back in your arms in a flash.
Whatever reaction you had when she told you she needed space was not a planned response to her statement. You probably never saw it coming and this is what she counted on. She knew you would be stunned and she could be out the door before you could get yourself together enough to do much of anything but stand with your mouth open. She also was prepared for the barrage of phone calls, emails, and text messages that you would be hitting her with in the days following the breakup. Of course, she has not responded and she will not. As long as you let her run you around like a small dog on a short leash, she will do it. If you ever expect to get back your girlfriend that dumped you, it will be necessary to turn things around to your favor.
Step back and look at the situation. What is driving you to get your ex back? You love her, you miss her, and you are afraid she does not want you anymore and you have lost her forever. This puts you in panic mode and you act without thinking. What if you could make her have these same feelings about you? She would realize she loves you, she would miss you, and think you did not want her anymore and she had lost you forever. But if she broke up with you, how can you make her feel this way?
First, you have to stop chasing her and go on with your life. This might sound hard for you to do, but get back with the friends you used to hang out with. Go out to your old hangouts and have fun. This does not mean dating other women. You are not trying to make her jealous. You are just showing her that you can live without her. Once she does not hear from you for a few weeks and she hears that you seem to have accepted the breakup and went on with your life, she will realize that she wants you back in her life. By allowing her the space she needed and going on with your life, you showed her that you were strong and mature enough to go on without her. When she thinks she might be losing you, your girlfriend that dumped you will realize how much she loves you and wants you back.About the Author:
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