subject: Get Your Ex Back Today [print this page] If you're looking for the fastest way to get your ex back, then it's important that you read this article. Why? Because it contains crucial advice about what you need to do, and more importantly, stop doing, if you really want to get your ex back today.
You see, immediately after your break-up when you were feeling pretty bad and naturally you were distraught, you probably made a ton of mistakes. It's not your fault. The truth is what feels like the right thing to do can often be the wrong thing to do in this circumstance.
That makes sense right? It's like you're drunk with the break-up booze... You ever do something stupid when you were drunk? Me too. No wonder we make some bad decisions after a break-up.
The things you do immediately after a break-up and in the weeks and months that follow can either push your ex further away from you or bring them closer to you again... and even right back into your arms.
So, if you want to get your ex back today, the first thing you've got to do is to stop doing the things which push your ex further away because they're damaging your chances of getting back together again with your ex.
Now if you know you've already made some mistakes and you're worrying about it, just remember that couples have probably made worse mistakes than you and still got back together. In my opinion, most situations can be turned around if you're following a plan of action which has worked for others, and you stick to it!
1) So the first thing you need to stop doing, if you want to get your ex back today, is to accept the break-up. Yup, it sounds strange, but you ever heard the saying: "What you resist, persists"? Same thing here: resist the break-up and you stay broke-up, accept it and you open the doors to making up.
2) Stop begging and pleading to get back together. It doesn't work. In your ex's eyes it just makes you seem emotionally unstable and desperate two qualities which are guaranteed to push your ex further away.
If you want to get your ex back today, then you need to become more attractive to your ex that's what it's all about but if you're doing the things which make you unattractive to your ex, then it doesn't matter how attractive you try to be it won't work.
First you need to stop doing the things which prevent them from seeing you as the attractive person you are, and then you need to enhance that attractiveness in their eyes.
So those are two of the big mistakes people make (and there are more). If you want to get your ex back today, then you definitely need to follow a plan that's already helped other couples get back together, so you can avoid the pitfalls that most people make. If you're interested in something like this, you can find it over at: www.getexback101.com
