subject: 4 Times it's not the Best Way: Breaking up with a Girlfriend is not Always the Answer [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
There are plenty of times when breaking up isn't the best way. Breaking up with a girlfriend isn't always the best solution to the problems in your relationship. These are four times when you'd be better off trying to work things out rather than calling things off. When you aren't absolutely sure this is what you want to do. While you may never be 100% certain there are times you'll think about breaking up and you just aren't sure it's the right thing to do. If you're still in that stage try thinking about how to save the relationship instead of how to end it. When you believe she's cheating on you. It's just not enough to think she's cheating on you. Don't play judge and jury and convict her without getting all the facts. You could be hanging (or in this case dumping) and innocent woman on the bounds of your suspicions. This doesn't mean that there aren't some serious trust issues within the relationship that need to be worked on but those are things that can be fixed if you both really love one another. If she is cheating then you might want to consider leaving but even then the relationship can be saved. When you think she doesn't love you. It's one thing to feel as though you're not the absolute center of her world. You want to be the one person she loves above all others but that doesn't mean she's going to spend every waking minute trying to make you feel the full weight of her love for you. If you're feeling a little distance or it feels as though she's a bit aloof maybe talking to her will be the best place to start. What isn't the best way is breaking up with a girlfriend because your relationship isn't living up to your expectations. Try making changes before you decide to call things off. When you really do love her. Love will conquer many things. There are some who believe the love can conquer all things. Perhaps that depends on the depth of the love you have for each other but if you're both really in love and are good for the other person in the equation there's no real reason to call things off. You can be separate and miserable or together and put a little effort into finding a way to make things work. About the Author:
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