subject: There is no Best Way – Breaking up with Someone Just Plain Sucks [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
You heard it straight from the horse's mouth. When it comes to breaking up, there really is no "best way." Breaking up with someone is hard and there is nothing at all fun or amusing about it. Knowing this, thousands of couples call it quits each and every day. Have you ever wondered what the reason is? Maybe it's because people expect relationships to be easy. If that's the case then the joke really is on you. Just like breaking up is hard, it's sometimes even more difficult to do the work required to make a relationship work. Here are a few things you might want to keep in mind as you work to find the best way for breaking up with someone. It doesn't feel good to hurt someone. This is doubly true when it's someone you once cared for or someone you still care for. The thing is, by ending it now you may be saving this person you care a great deal for more pain down the road. Some relationships, after all, just aren't meant to be. It's better to learn sooner rather than later. You don't want to be the bad guy today? It takes a special sort of person to play that role well. But, if you play the role of the bad guy today you might actually be able to save yourself from playing the role to a greater degree later on. The longer you allow the relationship to limp along the worse the actual break up may be. Do you know the relationship isn't right for the two of you even though you still care deeply for the other party? How easy is it going to be later on? Will it get any easier? That's an unlikely scenario. It only gets more difficult in time as your lives become even more intertwined. What's the benefit of ending things sooner rather than later? You don't have time to learn to hate each other before you call things off. This will do you both a huge favor and may even help you remain friends when all is said and done. Stop spending all your time searching for the best way. Breaking up with someone won't be any easier tomorrow. If you go ahead and do it today to get it over with you might be able to build a new relationship that is even stronger than your romantic relationship ever had a chance to be.About the Author:
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