subject: When He Tells You He Will Call and Doesn’t – Why Men Do This and How to Change It [print this page] Author: Gillian Reynolds Author: Gillian Reynolds When he tells you he will call and then he doesnt, how does that make you feel? Thats one question women have been asking each other for years. It seems that the issue of men and phone calls is an ongoing problem in relationships and when a man doesnt call it can leave a woman feeling not only frustrated, but rejected too. If the man in your life tells you that hell call and then he doesnt, dont allow it to control your emotions. If you have a better understanding of why men do this and what you can do to change it with your guy, youll never have to wonder again why he just cant seem to pick up the phone to call. As women we see telephone calls in a different light than most men do. When he tells you he will call and then hours pass without a word, we tend to jump to some pretty strong conclusions about his interest in us. We believe that since he couldnt take the time to remember his promise to call that were just not that important to him. Thats probably not the case at all. He may have the call low on his priority list at the moment, but that doesnt necessarily mean you are. The balance of telephone calls and who takes on the primary role of making calls is established very early in most dating relationships. If youve always called him when he took too long to call you, hell simply become lazy about calling. In his mind he knows that if he forgets to call or just doesnt make the time to do it, sooner or later his phone will ring and it will be you. If youre tired of waiting and waiting for him to call when he promises to, stop calling him. This is a very simple fix that most women overlook. Its very easy to fall into the trap of thinking that if you dont call him that hell never call you and move on to someone else. Thats not going to happen. What will happen is hell realize that youre not going to continue to carry the role of being the caller any longer and hell start calling you. It may take a day or two but before long hell be calling you just as much as you call him.About the Author:
You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. Find out when you should be calling your man.
You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to call him is so that he'll find you irresistible.
