subject: How To Start Conversations In Filipino Chat Rooms [print this page] Some of the dating site members arent sure how to start a conversation with other members of online dating site. Our advice is to start with short but meaningful messages.
For instance, if you come across a profile of a member youd like to meet, we thing its quite reasonable to send a message like, Hi, I came across your profile. I appreciated what you said about [...]. Would you like to correspond? -Bill or Hi, I came across your profile. You are listed as being 80 years old. But your picture looks 30. Why did you enter your age as 80? -Dieter or Hi, I noticed youre looking to meet someone 25-45. Well, Im slightly outside your age range, so Id like to know how flexible you are about that age item. -Lyn or Hi, Id like to chat; if you dont mind me asking, how often do you attend Church?
We also think its a good idea to send winks to other members, especially if you are a free member who is only allowed 2 messages per day. A wink is an indication that you liked something you noticed in a persons profile. Maybe the person will wink back, or maybe they will write a note back, or maybe not. Even free level members are allowed many winks per day, so its an easy way to take the first step.
We do not encourage members to write too much in their first messages. If you have a lot to say, it might be effective to offer that as a silent prayer rather than a letter. For the person sending the message, we think sending too long a message as a first step can build an emotional attachment that is inappropriate given that you still dont know the other person. For the person receiving, it can be overwhelming to receive too long a letter. We believe its better to start with a short message that has some personalized content noted based on the profile. Of course, its up to you. Good luck!
