subject: Getting An Ex Back After Cheating - 3 Steps To Get You Started [print this page] Are you thinking of simpler ways to get back an ex after the cheating? There is a high probability that you had heard of ghastly stories on the difficulty of getting an ex back after that cheating act of yours. One good news for you is that not all relationships that went wrong ended badly. There are those with happy endings.
It must be noted also that those with happy endings for the couple poured in a lot of dedication, commitment, hard work and a plentiful of love to be able to reach that stage. Cheating or the willingness to do the same is not just some decisions you plucked out of the air after getting up from bed. This is a process that formed over time.
Helping your relationship get over with the issue and move towards the direction of healing and reconciliation is another process step that would require time for it to happen. Below are three steps that will get you started.
1)Give your ex one reason to stay. It only takes one reason to get the attention of someone that isn't really that interested in leaving. You see, your ex still loves you. That didn't end with your cheating. Your ex is just looking for one reason to give you a second chance. It needs to be big. Hopefully the love you have for each other is big enough to move past almost everything.
2)Show how dedicated you are in making it work. This definitely can make all the difference. When you have your ex feel as if he or she is not alone in making sacrifices and working towards that second chance there would be less opposition to the idea or the long, difficult hours ahead of you both. Labor more and let your hard work be the evidence. Continuously work to strengthen the relationship and the bond that between the two of you.
3)Have your transformation be known to your ex. Change is needed so that cheating never happens again. Your ex needs to believe that you have transformed for the better so that he or she will never let you go and therefore give you that second opportunity that you've been wanting. Concurrently, this requires noticeable changes in not just the way you react but also in the way you present yourself to the world (the latter would be the first that'll catch your ex's attention) It will be a lot easier to get positive results when you have your ex's attention on positive changes in your life.
