subject: How To Have Interesting Conversations With Women [print this page] Starting a conversation with women on the dating scene may not be difficult, but maintaining their interest most certainly is. In interactions with women, most men run out of steam before they even really get going. They simply introduce themselves, make a bunch of random statements, which is then followed by awkward silences. Here are some tips on how to have interesting conversations with women and help create attraction.
Truth be told, talking to women can be a lot of fun if you have the right mindset and it does not have to be awkward. The trick to catching and keeping a woman's interest is simple - use your ears and listen. Guys do not need to waste energy worrying about what to say, when simply listening to women's answers to their questions could provide the foundation for interesting conversation.
1. Be Funny
Most women love to laugh and be entertained. However do not be a clown! Laughter helps to break the ice. If you can make a girl laugh, she will view you in a very positive light and be comfortable around you which is what you want. If you are not naturally funny, prepare beforehand some funny stories about your life and try to incorporate them into the conversation.
Simply recall some times in your past were something memorable or embarrassing occurred and retell this account. Being able to laugh at yourself will lighten the mood and help to build rapport with women since you will appear to not take yourself too seriously which is an excellent quality to have.
If you need extra guidance, here is a simple format to follow to help you tell a great story from your past.
- You should be the main character.
- Demonstrate appealing character traits such as courage or confidence.
- The tone of the story should be light and funny.
- The ending or punch line should be memorable and interesting.
As you know, practice makes perfect, so take the time to perfect your storytelling prior to hitting the dating scene if you have trouble telling interesting stories. It would be great if you would try them out for family or friends to have a good guess on what the reaction will be like to your story.
2. Fish
Listening to a woman as opposed to staring at her chest gives you a chance to fish for information that you can build upon from her answers to your questions. A great conversation involves give and take on the part of both parties not just one. Remember to ask questions that elicit more than yes/no responses. Ask questions about her background, hobbies, or career, and use her answers to find a common ground with her on which to build further interesting conversation. As you listen to her, this will show her that you are genuinely interested in her as a person.
Be relatable to the women you approach, thereby building rapport with them. People are naturally drawn to others like them, and the more a woman feels like you understand her, the more she will be attracted to you.
Prepare yourself beforehand with interesting stories and use your ears during the interaction and you will be able to attract any woman you want. Practice these tips and say goodbye to awkward silences for good.
