subject: How To Be A Winner When You Thought You Were A Loser ... In Getting Back Your Ex Boyfriend [print this page] When you have had a break in your relationship with your boyfriend,it is not easy to get back together again.
There are,though, a few things you can do to get him back into your arms. Not everyone succeeds in doing so however. It is not always your fault
You cannot get a book of precise instructions on how to deal with dating -relationship problems such as breakups!
There are 5 easy steps that you can take that will help you reach your goal:
1) The first one is to get rid of negative thinking. That is essential.
2) Do not succumb to a pity party
3) You must be strong. There is no way you can win if you are not able to keep your emotions under control.
4) Realise and accept that the former relationship is finished. You cannot change the past,so why try? Knowing that the relationship was not perfect in the first place,will help you to put down a firmer foundation to get back your ex.
5) It is easy to fall into the trap of whitewashing over all the gross stuff. Do not harass your ex. Men hate that. Especially ex boyfriends!
Even though you miss hearing him or seeing him-if you genuinely want him back, you must back off for a period. It should not be too long,and it is worth waiting for is it not?
Take good care of your appearance. That is a must. Do not let yourself go- be smart,be trendy. Be laid back.
By now-assuming you have followed the above steps,you should have heard from him. When he sees the "new you"-his desire to be back with you will be reignited!
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.He will get anxious to keep seeing you-but take it very slowly,and this will help to ensure that this time your relationship will not be short lived.
You can do it! When you have him back,you will be happy to see how he responds to the "new you" and you will see a beneficial change in him too.
So-instead of the whole thing being a time of negativity it can be a time of establishing a better future than you would have had prior to the break-up. Win-Win.!
