subject: Cyber Stalking Can Happen to Anyone [print this page] Take your kids complaint seriously to protect your kids from internet predators and cyber bullies. It's not about over-reacting - it's about being there to support your child if he or she ever becomes a victim of internet predators.
Although there are sources that claim to allow a person to obtain much of this information on their own, it is highly discouraged against. One reason that this is not recommended is because when it comes to the issue of cyber stalking, many of these other methods are often ineffective.
Now, probably more than ever, as news headlines are filled with reports of terrorism, violence among our youth, child abductions, and the growing problem of pornography, our attention is turned toward the safety of our children. Deep within us all is a strong need for security. In times of stress, Illness, or danger, we are inclined to seek out those to whom we are closest in hopes of somehow restoring our sense of we will-being. This was observed in the immediate aftermath of the September 11th tragedy in which many people felt an urgency to return home and make contact with loved ones. According to John Bowlby (1982), this would constitute the activation of an attachment behavioral system that has a set goal of maintaining proximity with ones primary attachment figure(s). This internal structure, if properly nurtured, can provide our children with the necessary relational fortification against falling prey to the seductive ploys of predators, as we will as the victimizing effects of traumatic events.
This is the first step in understanding that there are others out there that will harm others if given the opportunity, and acknowledging that you must protect your family from those dangers. It is imperative to understand all the different ways that a predator can introduce themselves into your family. This will help you to protect you and your family from sex offenders.
The click of a mouse and a few careless moves by your child can put him in a sticky situation.
In some instances people who become the victims of cyber stalkers attempt to uncover this information on their own through websites which claim to be able to get this data instantly. These websites are not very effective for this process and often produce completely inaccurate results. The best thing to do is turn to a professional who is skilled to perform a proper reverse email look-up in order to get the best results. The average amount of time needed to conduct an investigation of this sort is anywhere from 24 hours to 14 days.
If you think online games are just for boys who are into strategic war games or role playing games for warriors and wizards then you might not have been introduced yet to the colorful and exciting world of girl games on the Internet.
