subject: 5 Siimple Tips To Avoid Common Mistakes In Relationshp [print this page] We should ensure that we deal with a relationship intelligently. Making our relationships more intimate and secure is a continuous learning process. Follow a few tips to avoid getting into situations with your partner. Given below, are 5 of the worst things you can do, to endanger your relationship. If you can learn to stay clear of these "don'ts," your chances of maintaining a long lasting relationship is definite.
Initially it might seem impossible to follow all of these advices, but after applying a little effort, you will find out they are not that hard you initially think. And the effort is worthy of results. A great positive influence in your relationship will make happy both of you.
1. Not being communicative. You may think this is easy but the fact is that you should listen to your partner and understand what he has to say, rather than try to read between the lines. For instance, he may be making a general statement about obesity and you may decide to interpret it as a direct rebuff on yourself, especially, if you are conscious of the weight you have put on recently.
Your partner may be seriously talking about the weight of a total stranger, but you begin to react defensively, as you feel he is implying that you are overweight. This may be the case in reverse too, as both of you do not pay heed to the actual sentence, but try to misinterpret it. When you do that, you are putting thin
Try expressing your hurt to your partner and see how you have misjudged his remarks for no reason. He will definitely point out your mistake and settle the issue if you both talk it out.
2. Your relationship should not be one-sided. Both of you should be in a give and take relationship, where everything is shared mutually. If either one of you is the only giver, the relationship can spell trouble for the other as the basis of a good relationship is equality.
It is difficult or even impossible to force your partner to be a giver if he don't want to be. What could you do in such case? Do not just go around with sulky face this will not resolve the problem. For the better solution read advice No 3 and 5.
3. Show your affection for your partner. You should not suppress your display of affection with your partner. By this, it does not mean that you have sex more frequently, to show you care. Sex is not the only way one can express their love. Be openly demonstrative by giving your partner a quick hug, or squeeze when you pass them, or sneak up from behind to plant a kiss on your partner.
4. Stay clear of bad habits. If you and your partner are involved in some nefarious activity together, your relationship spells disaster. If you encourage your partner with drugs, excessive drinking or some petty shoplifting activity, you need help and fast. You will only bring ruin on each other and destroy what you have together.
5. Make your partner your best friend by telling each other everything about yourself. You may agree that your partner is indeed your best friend but you say, you deliberately withhold some information. That is not right. You should have a relationship with no holds barred. Just because you have crazy sex does not make you and your partner intimate. You should be able to tell each other everything in order to have a secure relationship.
It is really hard to be opened if something is wrong for example, if you are feeling guilty or insulted, but your relationship could not be developed on secrets. Be sincere and reveal what exactly you feel and don't worry that you will be rejected. If the person you live with cannot accept you with your negative and good features, he or she does not deserve you.
The tips given above by a lay person, who is not a therapist or a T.V consultant, will stand you in good stead, in your relationship that will weather all storms. Try to follow each of the above tips and watch how your love grows from now on.
5 Siimple Tips To Avoid Common Mistakes In Relationshp
