subject: Moving On With The Past Painful Relationship & Live Happily Again [print this page] Many of us have had breaks in the past and now desire to go forward. Something destroys every new relationship. What is that? Because if you find that your every new relationship is breaking well, you start looking for faults in yourself. The truth may be somewhere else.
What happens after a breakup?
This depends largely on the strength of the previous relationship. Love is more intense, more painful outcome after rupture. And if the break was caused by the infidelity of their partner, it hurts even more. The memories of being with forever be pursued. A look at something shared will bring a flood of memories from the past and take away your peace in a moment. The past can be very destructive. Kill the person, but kills the present and the future. It can haunt you forever.
How out of it?
There is no easy way out of this. Some of us never leave the penalty for our lives. One method that can help is this. Imagine a pool of emotions. Imagine of many reservoirs. In one, you have a yearning for the lost- in other to keep the memory of the good times. In another you have stored pain that is suffering. Thus many of the reservoirs imagine. Until you are emptied, will not become new, am I right? What should I do? Please empty. It will take time, in some cases for many years but may be empty if you really want. Live through everything you're looking forward to new, empty the tank. Similarly mourn what you can and fell the pain of lost love has given him. Everything fully suffers from all the pain and try to empty all that is in your heart.
This is very painful. But if you want to live again, please do so. Many of us hide our pain, not to think about the good times shared by all means try to be so busy that the feelings do not go at all. But the feelings are much in there eating away our vitals. These feelings will not let you move forward positively. Please remove everything from the mind and heart by reliving and go forward. It may no longer feel the pain and sorrow with the same intensity, but will be very difficult to fall in love again with someone else earlier intensity. Please accept this fact. His beloved you left you have taken away something very vital to you - your faith in the goodness of human beings. But after emptying completely, you at least become a normal person, which can lead to life, if not a robot, a person without feelings.
