subject: What To Look For In A Partner [print this page] There are a lot of thing you want to look for in a relationship with another person. A lot of the qualities that you have are attractive to another person. There are good qualities and bad qualities there are also some qualities there are wanted but not needed. Good qualities are always a plus but everyone has bad qualities. But you have to out weigh the good with the bad.
Some of the qualities people look for when trying to find a mate consist of. Do they care about others before themselves, meaning are they willing to give the shirt off their back for someone who is in need. Are they willing to help others no matter what it is that they themselves need.
Are they going to be a good provider for you and possibly your kids if your are both planning to have some in the future. By keeping a steady job, and not jumping from job to job or quitting their job with out finding another one to replace it with before they quit. This is a big one because you do not want to find yourself having to move out of where you are living because you can not afford your bills do to the source of only one income.
One quality that you do not want is an abusive person. No one deserves to be hit or thrown across the room or into walls. Having to live in fear that you will do something to make someone mad, and have to worry about getting beat up every time you make a mistake. No one should ever have to go through that and if you are in that type of relationship get out of it as quickly as possible. Even if you do love that person. Get away from them until they can get help for their problem.
Neatness is another. You do not want to be with someone who is messy and lives in a mess. Nobody want to come home to a house full of garbage and unclean dishes. Most people want to come home and relax after a days work. So stay clean and pick up after yourself. It goes a long way.
These are just a couple of thing that will help you find the person that you are supposed to be with. Treat people with respect and they will treat you the same. This is the Golden Rule. And it will help you in your relationships.
