subject: Marriage: Your First Night Of Bliss [print this page] Have you just gotten married? Are you looking forward to that first night of bliss? Have you thought of nothing else all day only to find that when the time comes you are so nervous that you can not seem to think. Are you almost to the point of throwing up? If you were to go ask several couples about their first time you would probably be surprised and then with some you would find that you can not control the laugh that comes from deep in your throat. To a lot of you this night of bliss is anything but. You could be so nervous that you and your partner might not be able to do anything. Then again it could be so great that you never leave your room.
If you find yourself in this position you should try to think of anything else but this night. Go out on the town and wine and dine each other until you both are so relaxed that you can really be ready for whatever come alone. You will want to keep the night young and a good way to do this might be kissing. This kissing is a very strong emotion that both of you need to feel. Woman love to be kissed and they expect to really feel the emotion. If you do not this might find you on the couch with only a pillow for comfort. You might even find yourself in a fight and this will really hurt your first night.
You have planned your wedding to be this beautiful thing and then when it is time for this perfect night you stumble. You will want your first night to be as great as your wedding and some times this is just not in the cards. You might find that you will have to wait until later to have this perfect night. Your new wife might start her period brought on by being so nervous or you might have drank too much so that you simply pass out. There are several things that can happen to postpone this first night. If this happen you will simply have to try again later.
The main thing to remember is that you both need to slow down as this night will happen and it might be when you least expect it. You have all of the time in the world to show your love to one another so there is not need to rush.
