subject: How Do You Get Him Back In Your Arms...when He Has Moved On? [print this page] How to Get Him Back in Your Arms -When He Has Drifted Away
Has your relationship with your boyfriend come to an abrupt end,even though it seemed paradisal?
Has he suddenly announced to you the news that he "needs more space"?
He may or may not have given his reasons, but it is usually a combination of fear of commitment,problems within his immediate family or he is feeling that the relationship is getting a bit too claustrophobic for comfort.
Whichever it is-here follows a little advice you might find beneficial and help get back your boyfriend quickly,before he drifts away for good:
Now,since you are reading this,it is clear that you still love him,but you have your pride and you do not want him to feel he has dominion over the situation. What to do?
Well,it would be wise to keep open lines of communication. Occasional conversations,text messages here and there, all very low -key so as to minimise the drama element,will usually help. Be sure,though, that he still has feelings for you and that the relationship has some substance to it.
If you stick to this plan of action you will likely find a gentle thaw in his response--a warmth and a real interest in you again.
This is a crucial time. Be careful to still play it a trifle detached in your outward attitude. Under no circumstances let him see that you are "needy" or over eager! Men dislike that intensely in a woman,and that attitude is often the cause of failure in relationship mending. So let your advances be gradual and gentle.
If there is not too much response from your boyfriend, despite your plans-you may have to come to the point of admitting to yourself that possibly the relationship is irreparable, just let things take there course. Why knock yourself out?
If however-he is showing real interest in you, and the signals are on green-then go, but "go slow"! If you do,your chances of rekindling your romance are high,and you will soon be back in each others arms,probably with more appreciation and understanding of each other than you had before.
The simple steps I have outlined are just the beginning to getting back your ex.
To find out more, I recommend you take a look at a couple of free, frank and fascinating videos- that outline in detail how you too -can mend that broken relationship and find a greater depth of love than you ever had before.
