subject: To Make Him Regret The Breakup - Show Him You Don't Care And He Will Run Back Begging [print this page] To Make Him Regret The Breakup - Show Him You Don't Care And He Will Run Back Begging
When he told you he wanted to end the relationship, you went into a panic and started crying and begging him to give you another chance. That was what he was hoping you would do because he knows that if he does change his mind, you will take him back. This gives him all kinds of freedom and leaves you sitting at home waiting for him to call. You deserve better than that, and you need to show him that you do. In order to get him back, you will have to make him regret the breakup. You can do this by showing him you do not care and accept the breakup. If you have already been chasing him, crying and begging, you need to stop doing it immediately. Every time you beg him to want you again, you are pushing him farther away and making it harder to get your ex back. Start doing just the opposite and ignore him. Move on with your life and act as if he does not exist. You have to change your image from a needy and desperate woman to a proud self confident person that is in control of your life. The image you project at this crucial time will determine the fate of your relationship. If you can show him that he needs you more than you need him, he will run back begging.
To accomplish this it will be necessary to let him go. Not forever, but for at least a few weeks. This will give you time to settle down and let him experience his life without you. To make the time pass faster, occupy yourself with others. Do some volunteer work and help those that are less fortunate than you. Seeing the problems of others can greatly reduce yours. It will also raise your self esteem and restore your confidence. Stay busy at night by going out with your friends or spend time with your family. You cannot be sitting at home waiting for your ex boyfriend to call.
Hearing about your activities will make your ex have new respect for you and he will begin to miss you. Once he realizes that you are the best thing to have happened to him, he will regret the breakup. Now, he will be the one to become desperate and wonder how he can get you back. This is what you have been hoping for, but have patience and do not just fall back into his arms. Continue to be the strong self confident woman you have become and make him fight to get you back.
