subject: Life is not a bed of roses [print this page] Author: Sandra Wilkinson Author: Sandra Wilkinson
There is no point in being the apple of your family's eyes when deep down inside you do things unhappily. Always remember the fact that you, as an individual and as a family member, cannot make all the others around you happy and there is no point in making others happy by destroying your own inner peace. God helps those who help themselves. Do things what you want to do, do not worry about the outcome even before you start the journey. If you are happy, others around you will be happy and if they don't, why should you waste your precious time in making them happy. Remember the rule of happiness and love, a person who loves you wants to see you happy at any cost. Try to think seriously about yourself, give yourself the due attention you always deserved. This however does not mean that you need to disrespect others or ride on them. Find things that can help you to positively change your personality. If you can take your own decisions then you cannot blame others if you fail and similarly others cannot take credit if you win. Having this type of approach to life will surely bring happiness to you. Find happiness in small things, there are a lot of these things around you. I can be happy when I see a child smiling, I feel happy when I can help others to build their careers. The ways may be different but the goal is the same, inner happiness. The situations in our lives may be different but no one is born happy or sad, lucky or unlucky. There is no point in praising or cursing the destiny for things of our lives. Start having belief in your abilities, perform at your best and the world will be a different platform for you to display your real metal. I really wish that my words can help you to lead a better life and be a better individual. If I am unable to do this for me, my purpose of writing this article is simply defeated but I really hope that you will not disappoint me by just reading this blog by having a glance on it or thinking it as a waste bunch of words.About the Author:
Sandra has been promoting the cause of youth participating and development in today's society. For more of her articles, visit http://successandyouth.com/
