subject: What to Talk About When Meeting a Woman You Like (Secrets to Getting Her to Open Up to You!) [print this page] Author: Harvey Alford Author: Harvey Alford
If you are looking to meet women, have no fear. They are everywhere. Many of them are also looking to meet men. In the dating game, women expect men to be the seeker, the predator, while they wait for the approach. Women are drawn to men who are confident and never come off as wimpy, shy or bumbling when they meet a woman. This may seem charming in some movies, but in real life, the bumbling and shy guy is a turn off for most attractive women who can have their pick of any man. You do not have to look like a super stud in order to be one, either. Women are less visually stimulated than us. They are more turned on by the personality of a man than his looks. In fact, a man with confidence can have any woman he wants. Most of us have seen guys who operate like this. They have women coming to them, calling them and even going to their homes. And they do not seem to have anything else that we do not have. Except confidence. The first step you need to take when talking to a woman is to ask her a few questions about herself without sounding like you are interrogating her. You want to ask her name and perhaps give her a little compliment. You can tell her that her name reminds you of something pleasant. Not an old girlfriend or your mom, either. You can tell her that you have always liked that name. Then use it when you address her. The sound of someone's name is music to their ears. Use her name in your conversation. Tell her a little bit about yourself and keep your conversation positive. The biggest turnoff is to start talking negative to her about the people in the place, the bar, the cashier, anything. Be positive and focus on her. Look at it as if you are starting up a conversation with someone in line at a grocery store and take it from there. Pay attention to what she is saying and take cues from her answers so that you know how to continue the conversation. Maintain control of the conversation the entire time. This gives you an air of self-confidence. Be the first to leave the conversation. Tell her that you liked talking to her and wished you had more time. See what she says. She may offer an email address or calling card so that you can reach her. You can also give her your card with your email address and ask her to contact you if she wants to stay in touch. This is a non-threatening but assertive approach on how to talk to a woman. It exudes confidence and does not make you seem needy, desperate or negative - three things that turn a woman off more than anything else. You may get her number, or you may not. But do this often enough, and you are bound to hit the jackpot sooner or later!About the Author:
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