subject: Feel Attractive Now - 5 Revolutionary Ways To Achieve This [print this page] Maybe it started as a bad hair day, it progressed to nothing in your closet looking right on you and bottom line, you're not feeling very good about yourself today. It's so easy to slip into to the doldrums when you just don't feel attractive now. So you must be asking yourself, what can I do to make myself feel better now? What kind of pick me ups can be put into place to make a quick change in my mood? Sometimes it's a mental trick, other times there are physical changes you can implement that will have an immediate effect. Try these to get you going:
1. Look in the mirror the right way - Women as a whole tend to look in the mirror and focus in on one specific area, their hair, butt or belly. You know how you are and you know the area you zero in on. But, if you're wanting to know how to feel attractive now, take a step back and look at the whole picture. Notice how put together the outfit is. While yes, your butt may be bigger than you'd like, your legs look long and sleek, your lines flow. Find the great in how you look, the sexy, the charming. It's there, you just can't find it for the negative thoughts.
2. Luxuriate Your Locks - Slick down your hair with your gel for a wet looking hair do. You can also do this with a pony tail for a sophisticated style. Just make sure to use black hair bands instead of your daughter's Hello Kitty hair ties.
3. Make It Scentsual - You know you have two or three bottles of perfume sitting on your bathroom counter that are collecting dust. Clean them off and spritz some on this morning. Even if you're not feeling sensational, the scent will be an instant pick me up to your mood.
4. Make It With Make-Up - Go the extra mile to make your make up look special today. Put on that lipstick that you wouldn't normally wear. Add the mascara you might normally leave off. Don't go overboard, just add a little something extra that you know about. Add that something that makes you feel the inner beauty.
5. Match Up Underneath - Even if no one else will be seeing it, a great way to feel attractive now is to wear some pretty lacy matching lingerie underneath those business clothes. Knowing that you're wearing so lovely under your regular clothes is enough to put a smile on your face.
You don't have to do all of these things to feel attractive now, although if you do, no harm will come of it. Just change your mindset on the days you wake up feeling like Shrek's ugly twin. Remember all your positive attributes and improve your self talk. Don't worry that you sound like a Saturday Night Live skit, just know that you are beautiful and that, by golly, people like you!
