subject: How Can A Gay Talk To A Straight Guy - What Topics To Choose [print this page] How Can A Gay Talk To A Straight Guy - What Topics To Choose
Basically as a gay you are used to talk with your gay friends. So I bet your common topics are guys, bars and the latest gossip about that singer who recently admitted that he is gay...However, those topics are not really helpful if you are aiming to talk to a straight guy.
Straight guys have different choices of topics. That should not be hard, it's about girls, cars and sports.So if you don't know anything about each, then start doing some researches. You don't have to be an expert about girls cup sizes and the likes. You can get away from that by asking questions. Let him talk about those topics and you should listen to him so he will feel that he is your 'mentor'. Although we both know what you want from him. Talking to a straight guy is easy right?
If he says that he loves going to car shows, exert an effort to invite him over to one. See, make him believe that you have the same interests so you will be the first on his list when he is looking for a company.
When you get really close, you can now open more sensitive topics like sexual preferences or his favorite porn. Not gay much right? Invite him over and watch that kinky dvd he said he loves. After which, you can talk more about it. Give your comments and say something like, 'you know what, sometimes I wonder how it feels to do it with a man' and laugh about it. You can sense if he has an awkward reaction or he's cool about it!
