subject: Finding a Proven Method to Breaking up with a Boyfriend [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
Sometimes, relationships just aren't meant to be. In these relationships, there is little, if anything you can do that will make them work for the two of you. When this happens you want to find a proven method to breaking up with a boyfriend that will allow you both to walk away with your pride in tact. If done right; you might even be able to spare a heart along the way too. How do you do the deed in a way that won't have you hating yourself in the morning? Straight no Chaser It might be tempting to sugar coat things but he'll appreciate it much more if you deliver the blow without flowery words or a long drawn out production. Just go ahead and say what you have to say to get it over with. The sooner you get it done and simpler you make the process, the better it will be for you both. Plan Ahead This is something you don't want to do on a whim. It's never a good idea to break up with your boyfriend without really thinking things through ahead of time. Planning what you're going to say and figuring out where you're going to do the dumping will help you really decide if this is the only answer you're willing to try. Breaking up should be a last resort and not a kneejerk reaction. Break it to him Gently This is something that far too women take the time to do. Women often feel that men experience love a little differently and fail to consider that men feel as deeply as women and will be just as hurt by the ending of the relationship as women would be if the roles were reversed. You hold his heart in your hands. Treat it as gently as possible even when you know you're going to break it. Go to Neutral Territory Breaking up is bad enough. Being forced to face the walls of the breakup day in and out makes it even worse. Don't go to favorite places, either home, or the workplace of your soon to be "ex" to make it happen. Just as you want to consider his feelings in this and avoid places that are important to him you also need to consider your own feelings too. Your feelings might not always be the same so make sure that you're not setting yourself up to be constantly confronted with painful reminders of your relationship and what you've lost. That is the best advice you will hear when looking for a proven method to breaking up with a boyfriend.About the Author:
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