subject: Finding Out How To Win Your Ex Back [print this page] Finding out how to win your ex back, it's really a process that isn't that difficult to do. Just as long as the breakup wasn't super messy this should work. Of course you do need to follow the steps and be able to know that you really want to be back together before you begin.
You shouldn't need to beg to get them back. Because when you first got with them, you surely didn't beg at that time, so why should you now? With begging it will put them on the defensive, and possibly push them further away than you want them to be.
Instead think of writing a letter, and apologizing in it. Stating that the breakup was the right choice and they were right to do it. Perhaps even saying that moving on and seeing other people is a great idea, and one that you both need to do.
With stating that you will make them feel better about talking to you and seeing you in person. The defenses they would have had up will now be much lower. You will be able to possibly impress them and win them back quickly. Because you were once close the more you see them, the more they will see why they were with you in the first place.
By admitting that you were the person who was wrong, you will be making them feel better about you in general. They may actually be able to recognize again why they were with you in the first place. That old spark may be relit again.
Though it's a hard part to put in that letter, the moving on part is needed. It will be the best thing in the process of getting them to be your friend. Plus keep in mind that it may have been another person who caused the split up. In that case it may take a bit longer to win them back, but you should still be able too. Though you may want to consider that they cheated on you once and may do so again.
