subject: Follow this Proven Method to Breaking up with a Married Man [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
Sometimes you need a road map to follow or a proven method to breaking up with a married man. It's never easy to be the one calling things off. Very few people enjoy finding themselves in the role of potentially hurting someone else in this deep emotional manner. Take some manner in the fact that his emotions might not be as invested as you would hope. But, what is the proven method to breaking up with a married man so you can get the deed over with and move on with your life without him in it? Understand why You are Leaving This is the most important thing to do when breaking up with a married man. You need to understand why you're leaving. Is it quilt? Do you think you deserve more than he is giving you? Do you want more time and attention from him than he can spare? Have you just decided you don't like being the "other woman" and wearing the stigma that goes along with it? You need to know why you're leaving before you take action to leave. Tell him like it Is He might not like to hear how things really are for you. Be honest in this but let him know why you're leaving. You don't need to write a long speech or practice in front of the mirror for days. But you owe it to yourself to tell him why you feel compelled to walk away. Offer no Excuses Don't make something up or make excuses. You were involved. You were part of the relationship and now it's time to move on. There's no need to apologize for that nor is there any reason to justify your need to move on. It's good to give an honest reason but beyond that you really don't owe him anything (as far as explanations or excuses go). Tread Carefully around Delicate Topics You know what the hot buttons for your relationship are. If it's his family, don't bring them into the conversation. There's no need really unless they are the primary motivation for your breaking up. Leave no Room for Debate or Second Chances He might ask you to stick around. He might beg, plead, bargain, or even buy expensive gifts in an effort to get you to stay. The problem is that unless he offers to change the situation (immediately) that is causing problems in the relationship he isn't offering you what you need. There's no reason to offer a second chance if he isn't giving you what you need from him right this very minute.About the Author:
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