subject: Sure Shot Psychological Ways To Get Your Ex Back! Read This Before It's Way Too Late For You [print this page] This is everyone's most challenging task and yet we put ourselves in this situation and then wonder if we can get back what we lost, so to speak. If only we had a 'magic wand' so that we can merrily wave them back just like magic as if nothing has happened. Unfortunately it does not work that way. Try the following tips to get his or her heart back to you.
Friendship: The moment you decide you want to get what you think rightly belongs to you then the "rightly" is the thing to avoid. It can be by chance you met but by choice you are in this situation. It is a privilege and not a right. And when we start using the term "my ex", we know the alarm bells are ringing. And getting your ex back may not be as difficult as it may seem.
Starting as friends again will psychologically give the impression that may seem to be that of sincerity. This is the safest way possible no matter what the circumstances are. By being friends again the chances of rejection is greatly reduced.
Remember that you both have gone through the courtship stage and repeating it immediately just to get back what you lost may be a low percentage shot. You must let the fire settle down. By being friends you develop a strong psychological foundation that things will be different the second time around.
The Unconditional You: This means you are showing that it is not important who was at fault. What matters to you is that you are willing to give but not expect anything in return. Yes, I must say it's quite a risk but the risk maybe less than what you will win. Then it becomes worth the risk. This psychological approach always works, unless it is taken too far, the other may begin to smell something fishy or may be convinced it's too good to be true.
In other words don't over do it, be natural but not unreal. Stay realistic. And most of all is be your self. Try not to impress. Don't be the great spender showing all is fine now that your back again. Remember that both of you have gone through a rough stage. Your job is to get your ex back which is totally different form getting someone you never had a relationship with.
Once you have made him or her feel you are allowing yourself to be vulnerable to a certain extent and be taken advantage of, the psychological impact to the other person is one of awe. It will ensure emotional security to the one experiencing it and will pave your way to getting back what you once had.
You have learned from the past: The most important consideration here is that you do not repeat the same mistakes. You may make new ones but never old ones. Making old mistakes means you are not serious about getting back your ex. This is very important as a common dialog may sound like, "it's going to be different now." The famous, "I have changed for the better," are words that need to be justified by action. Remember that words will not speak as loud as when you were in the courting or being courted stage.
You are coming from the past hoping for a better future or putting back where you both left off. Get yourself to feel that worthiness feeling. You are worth it once the psychological impression sinks in to your ex, the chances of gaining back, the chances of being reunited again.
To most persons, you are more likely to succeed in getting your ex back when you can reinforce what happened in the past that caused the relationship to turn sour and shall never be repeated.
Patience: This is the toughest challenge because the anxiousness always seems to take over other emotions. You just can't wait to get your ex back. Everything seems to be in slow motion here. Do not dwell on it. Remain confident and calm.
Do not show you are so eager to get your ex back. This will just make matters bad. Showing anxiousness creates a need of urgency and may lead to questions which you don't need. You are looking for results. The result in getting your ex back.
And this time give the impression that time is not a factor. Time is not the issue but the person. It will show you are giving importance to the person. You elevate things, taking another step higher.
The key is about picking up the pieces where you left off. And this involves patience. Remember that haste makes waste and rushing only results in being careless. And being careless is the last thing you would want to be.
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