subject: Proven Method to Breaking up with Your Boyfriend and doing it the Right Way [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
When you decided to end things you need to find a proven method for breaking up with your boyfriend that will help you do it the right way. You dont want to cause him unnecessary pain. You don't want to make him angry and you certainly don't want to inadvertently encourage him to become some sort of stalker. Ending a relationship isn't easy. It isn't supposed to be. It shouldn't be easy to fall into and out of love and relationships should be built to last. Some of them aren't though. For whatever reason some relationships just don't seem as though they were meant to be. The best and most widely proven method to breaking up with your boyfriend is to just bite the bullet and get it over with. It won't get any easier if you postpone it and you might just create more tension and bad feelings if you put it off too long. If you aren't sure you're ready to go there you need to spare a little time to decide this is what you really want to do before you put this proven method to breaking up with your boyfriend to work. Why are you thinking of leaving? Is it any of these reasons? Lack of trust. If for whatever reason you have a hard time trusting your boyfriend you have some major obstacles to overcome. You can still work things out but you're both going to have to work hard to do it. The real question is whether or not the relationship is worth enough to you to warrant working it out. Goals and values. Do you have similar goals and values? This can help you build a stronger relationship and future. Common ground in a relationship is a good thing. It isn't everything but you need to find something in common that you can build on or you don't really have anything to work towards. Abuse. This is one thing you should not tolerate in your relationship. Whether you are the person being abused or the abuser it's time to walk away if there is abuse going on. This should be the end of that discussion. Interest and excitement. Are these things present? Even if you're not ready to declare your undying love there is a lot that can be built on a strong interest in the person and excitement over the possibilities the relationship presents. If you're missing some of the old excitement maybe it's time to take effort to rekindle the spark instead of calling things off. About the Author:
