subject: How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Thank Him For The Breakup [print this page] Author: Author: . L. Archer" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/h.-l.-archer/232061.htm">H. L. Archer
When you think you have lost your man forever, that might not be the case at all. Sometimes to get your ex boyfriend back, you have to shake him up a little. If you have been begging and pleading with him to give you another chance and he just seems unconcerned about your feelings, you are going to have to change your tactics. You have to shake him out of his mode of smugness and confidence once and for all. The way to do this is to thank him for the breakup. This might seem a little risky to you, but what have you got to lose. You think he is gone for good, and it may be the only way to make him see the light and get your ex back.
Right this minute you have to make up your mind to let him go. As long as you keep feeding his ego by running after him he is going to let you. You can sit by your phone and wait for him to call, but you will wait forever. You cannot force him to want to be with you or to love you. The way to get him back is to make him realize that he might lose you forever and he will change his ways completely. The way to get things turned around in your favor is easy, and in fact, it will relieve the pressure on you and you will find yourself enjoying life again.
It all starts with you dropping off his radar and disappearing from his life. Next, go to a good salon and get a makeover with a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, and a tan. You will start to feel like a new woman. Next, go shopping and get some new clothes to accent your new hairdo and tan. Now you not only feel great but you look great, so go show off this new and beautiful woman. Get with your friends and go out on the town. Make sure you hit some places where your ex boyfriend hangs out. Let him see you having the time of your life, but do not engage him in conversation. You just want him to get a good look at what he gave up and then leave.
Seeing you looking so good and out having fun will drive him crazy. He thought you would be at home patiently waiting for him to call. Now he will be calling, but you will not be available. Soon his phone calls, emails and text messages will begin to pile up. Let them go for a couple of days and then return his call. Tell him you have been too busy to answer his calls but you had intended to call him and thank him for the breakup. Say that it was the best for both of you, and you had not realized how much fun you had been missing. End the conversation by wishing him a good life. This will make him feel rejected and since men cannot stand rejection, he will be the one doing the chasing now.About the Author:
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