subject: How To Get Back Your Ex... With The Power Of Positive Thinking [print this page] Going through a break in a relationship with your lover can be a lonely, painful and depressing time.
Yet it does not have to be that way. In fact you are more likely to get back with your ex if you show him/her that actually,you really are having a good time!
Everyone appears more attractive when they portray a positive happy attitude.
It has been proven by psychology experts,that as we act in a certain way-we influence our subconscious mind to accept as reality what we are-for the moment-just "pretending" The Bible says "as a man thinks in his heart,so he is". Same principle.
Who has not heard of an actor in a soap opera on TV.who has left the show because he was "becoming the character he portrayed"?
It happens all the time. Can you see the principle at work here? Of course,it does not happen overnight. It does take time. You can use that principle,that is called "actualisation" by actors and the aforesaid psychologists- to "get back your ex with positive thinking" so to speak!
We all can employ this technique to help us switch from negative to positive quickly and easily. Try it. I guarantee you- it works. I speak from experience over many years in counselling couples through my church.
How do you do it? Simple! Paste a big grin on your face,even if you feel all fakey and flakey'--grin for 30 minutes,or smile at the very least.
Think of all the things about your life that are good and wholesome. 'Count your blessings 'as they say.
You will begin to literally feel happier,lighter in spirit . It really does work like a charm,no matter how you "really" felt before.
You and I have the choice to be what we want to be. Yes ,it does take work and perseverance but the benefits are all worth having. You can be more attractive than you ever believed if you persevere in changing YOU rather than trying to change someone else,or your circumstances.
Do you suppose this attitude will draw back your love? You betcha!
If you want to know how this all works in practical terms in more detail-how to mend relationships that seem unmendable (if that is a word!) you need ongoing help and encouragement plus a good pragmatic handbook. One that works.
