subject: You Slept With Him Too Soon? How to Repair the Damage and Build a Relationship [print this page] Author: Gillian Reynolds Author: Gillian Reynolds
Did you recently meet a great guy and now you feel that you slept with him too soon? If youre experiencing this dont panic. We all make mistakes in relationships and luckily most of them, including this one, can be undone. If you feel that you were intimate too early in the relationship and hes now avoiding you or his interest seems to have fallen off, theres advice you need to read. You can actually grab hold of his attention again and build a long lasting, fulfilling relationship with him if youve developed feelings for him. Dont allow your one mistake to rule your future with this man. If you slept with him too soon your impulse now may be to call him up and explain to him that youre just not that type of woman. Even if this is the first time youve been intimate with a man so early in the relationship, dont make the call. Youll simply be drawing even more attention to your mistake and he may feel that youre working too hard to justify your behavior. Most men unfortunately do jump to strong conclusions about women based on the timing of sex. They start to wonder if you have been intimate as quickly with your other partners. This can be a turn off depending on the man and if you bring it up again, after the fact, its just going to be a reminder to him. The best thing you can do is not talk to him about it right now. Wait to do that until you two have established a stronger dating relationship. You also need to work at showing him that theres more to you than what hes experienced to this point. Invite him out for dinner or a movie. Keep the date platonic though and dont allow yourself to end up in a position where intimacy will be expected. A good approach is to agree to meet him at a restaurant or theatre. That way you can say your goodnights there and go home in your own car. You do need to be mindful of not carrying the label of a tease though. Some men will expect you to be intimate on every date if you slept with him quickly. You need to be the judge of how often this can happen but just ensure that it doesnt define the entire relationship. Theres nothing wrong with coming up with an excuse or two for why you cant sleep with him. Hell soon get the sense that your interest in him isnt only about what goes on in the bedroom. This will help set the a new tone for the relationship.About the Author:
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