subject: Finding Your Queen [print this page] Author: Bill Preston Author: Bill Preston
I would guess that a small portion of guys out there who want to meet women have no desire to ever settle down. Not now, not in the future. For these men, a lifetime as a bachelor, sleeping around with hundreds, if not thousands of women, would not be long enough. These men plan on attempting to maintain this lifestyle even when they are old enough for a nursing home.
But, I don't think I am going out on a limb here when I say that I believe most men do want to have fun and date different women and maybe even sleep around, but ultimately at the end of the day, want to meet the girl of their dreams.
This may be another 10 years down the road for some. For others, it might be their top priority right now.
Regardless, when you do date multiple women you are always getting closer and closer to finding your future wife. There are a couple of things going on here. The first is that ever relationship you have has something to teach you. It could be showing you a good way to resolve an argument. It could be showing you the characteristics you suddenly realized you don't want in a long-term partner.
Each and every woman you date has something to teach you, if you realize it or not. It is all about improving yourself as a person. These lessons will help you to grow as a person so that when you do meet your princess, you will be her dream guy, not another frog she has to kiss to find her prince.
When you are studying how to pick up women, you are also educating yourself in how to be the best man you can be. To be a truly good pick up artist, you need to really, genuinely have good self esteem. Sometimes the journey there involves a lot of change. You may have to change your eating habits, your exercise habits, even how you spend your free time in order to be the best man you can be.
There is something to be said about timing and meeting the right woman at the right time. There is no time like the present to begin. Even if you don't plan to marry for another decade, think about what an awesome partner you will be for your wife after that many years learning the ins and outs of relationships.
Wouldn't you hate to meet your dream woman when you don't feel worthy of such a woman and are stuck in childish behaviors when dealing with conflict or other relationship issues. The time to start getting ready for Mrs. Wonderful is right now. There is no time to waste. You need to figure out what it will take to be worthy of your dream girl and then start working toward it.
Because someday, even the most prolific pick up artist is going to want to settle on the couch with his queen and stay in for the night.
Bill has been studying the art of being a pick up artist for the last 5 years and has been sharing advice as a guest instructor at the top Pickup Artist boot camp in NYC.About the Author:
Bill has been studying being an alpha male for the last 5 years as a guest instructor at the top boot camp in NYC. The original article can be found here: Finding Your Queen. More can be found at puaforums.com.
