subject: College Life: Conquering Your Freshman Fears Part 1 [print this page] When you start college, it is natural to feel apprehended. Feeling nervous and having fears should not trouble you as it actually indicates that you are interested in doing well in your college. That's a good sign. Remember, however, that your nervousness will go as you get familiar with your environment and so will all your fears. This article is part 1 of the series that explains common freshman fears and how to get rid of them or handle them.
Freshman Fear #1: I got admission by accident or by mistake.
You got admission because you met all the admission criteria of the college. If they had made a mistake, then they would have let you know by now regarding the same. So relax, you didn't get into this college by chance, you deserved to be in this college.
Freshman Fear #2: I will get an awful roommate.
While this possibility cannot be denied, it is important to remember that most students do get along well with their roommates. However, mutual understanding and good communication can help you at any point of time to build a healthy relationship with a roommate.
Freshman Fear #3: I don't know anyone I will not be able to make friends.
Yes, there is a possibility that some of the students may know each other but the majority of them are just like you. They do not know anyone else either and most of them are just as nervous about meeting new people as you are. Keep this fact in mind and relax. Taking a deep breath before introducing yourself can also be helpful. Orientation and the first week of college can be utilized especially for this purpose.
