subject: When The Cheating Spouse Leaves [print this page] You have just found out about your cheating spouse and called it quits. If both of your have decided to go no different paths, that is the end of that relationship. When the cheating spouse leaves, you may be wondering what to do and what's next. Are there things you have to do and you should not do?
Simply put, you move on. Now of course that is much easier said then done. You may have spent the better part of your life with this individual. Maybe they were your first and only love and you have just a horrible feeling off loss. How are you supposed to just move on?
Firstly give yourself some time and maybe even a holiday. Do not shutdown your friends and family, as they can really help you get through this. Do not be harsh with yourself and take it one day at a time. So get your ex out of your house, head and life for good. Remove everything that reminds you of him or her. Just shut that person down completely like it never happened.
After you heal, it is time to get back out there. You surely don't want to be alone for the rest of your life and you deserve to be happy. They are the one that screwed up and you should not be punished for that. And now you know what to look for. Whatever you do, don't rush into anything, take your time and get to know the person. If you see signs that you are unfortunately already familiar with, get out and look for someone else. There are good people out there, you just have to find them. It may take a little while before you trust anyone again, but eventually, that special someone will come out of the woodwork and you will wonder what you were ever doing with the other guy in the first place.
It may seem hard in the beginning about being cheated. But you have to get it going for yourself, everybody deserves to be married and have a family. Nothing is difficult if you try with all your mind. Do not let your past show up in your future. So seek happiness and you will find it. I hope now you know what to do when the cheating spouse leaves.
