subject: You Will Never Get Your Ex Back With Desperation! Here Is What You Should Be Doing Instead [print this page] If you're sitting at home harassing yourself with endless reasons why he left you, then it's time to stop. What you're doing is dangerous. No one has any right to put you down, including yourself. What you have a right to is that warm, fuzzy feeling of being in love, of being a part of a relationship. If you still love your ex and still want him back, self-pity and self doubt won't do the job but these four surprisingly effective ways will:
o Get noticed...
How do you do this? Get in touch with your own unique self. You have to know who you are and accept who you are. But this does not mean improving yourself where it is needed. If you feel a haircut would accentuate your pretty eyes more, then go ahead and get and haircut. And while you're at it, have highlights too. As for the things you can't change, accept it.
o Be the one pursued because Chasing will always keep you single...
No matter how much you want to go over his house and beg him to take you back, don't. You want to get his attention and you won't get this by going for him in all directions. Instead, you need something to stand out. You need an edge, and once you know that you are still the prize to be one (and you act like it), you will definitely become the one being pursued. Again, improve on your qualities. Focus on your good traits. Acquire a new skill. Make yourself more desirable and let him realize how dumb he was to let you go. You want your ex to literally become surprised by you, so that way he/she feels really intrigued and interested in you again, and the simplest and easiest way to get there is to simply make yourself the game.
o Build self-confidence...Surprise your ex...
Practice entering a room and owning the moment. It takes practice but it's well worth it. But you have to love yourself first before others can notice and before he can notice. Your confidence level can make or break the situation, because rejection doesn't always mean there is something wrong with you. Your ex may simply not like some things you are doing, but if you remain confident, you can easily turn these actions around so that your ex can want you back again.
o Restrain yourself...Yup! Control is the name of the game here...
When you finally have his attention and he wants you back, play it cool. Don't jump in the first instance. Play hard to get if you must. You know what they say. Men value what they have invested so much on. You may want to call your ex like crazy, or hug them, or hear their voice, but this is not the best solution right now. You can only surprise your ex, and make them want you back, if you restrain yourself and exhibit self control.
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