subject: How To Get Back Your Ex From A Rebound Relationship ...4 Tips That Will Help [print this page] Are you in a rebound relationship i.e.;a relationship where your ex partner is seeing another in hopes of getting over you?
This sort of situation is familiar territory for people who are into running away from their problems. Often-straight into someone elses arms!
This action, frankly, is a trifle cowardly and certainly selfish because the person they are currently with is just a stooge-being used as an emotional crutch. Truth is,most of us have been guilty of such an act,have we not? Do I see any hands being raised?
This article has been written not to lay a guilt trip on my readers, but to show there is a better way for you to get back your ex from that rebound relationship.
Now,if you can acknowledge that there is genuine love between you (though currently thwarted) there is a good chance of making up. If not, forget it...and just move on. Without love,there is nothing!
It is usual for the ex. to date a person who is highly dissimilar to the one they have left-if you are fair haired,they will go brunette-if they are slim they will choose fat-if you like sports they will go for a stay-at-home bookworm! Opposites attract they say. Yes,especially it seems in a rebound scenario.
Here follows four simple steps that will get them bouncing right back to you:
1) Never make promises you cannot keep. Do not tell him/her that you will change. They love you for who you are,after all.
2) Whatever you do,do not make excuses. If you were the one who messed up, just apologise,and leave it at that.
3) Do not be defensive. Do not try to force your ex. to believe that it was not Here follows Four simple steps that will get them bouncing right back to you:ally your fault. That will be counter-productive.
4) Do not implore your ex. to take you back. This is really a golden rule and you ignore it at your peril.
As I close...may I suggest that their really is a silver lining in every dark cloud , in the sense that a rebound relationship is a sure signal that your ex is really still in love with you! Blessings.
