subject: How To Help Your Son Or Daughter Learn From Various Personalities Of People [print this page] As human beings, we sometimes form judgments based on appearance without getting to know someone. On job interviews, for example, it is very important to dress appropriately and make a good first impression.
If you think this only happens in the adult world, think again. Chances are, your children witness this at school, perhaps even by the teacher. How can you help your child cope with not being the teacher's pet, when there clearly are teacher's pets?
Are your children very different from each other in personality? Mine are. I have three girls, each one unique. The oldest works hard in school and is very quiet - she rarely gets in trouble in school. My middle daughter is constantly being reprimanded for talking in class, as she is very social. My youngest has not yet started school, but talks constantly.
Does your child feel left out because he or she thinks the teacher has other favorites? If so, don't get upset right away or overreact.
Talk to your child about it. Where did they get this information? Did they witness it first hand and what did they witness?
Did they just overhear other kids talking or did they actually witness the behavior? What did they witness? Talk to your child about different personalities and emphasize that none are better than others.
A child and teacher laughing doesn't have to imply a favorite. Calling on the same students during class can be innocent. Perhaps the teacher doesn't want to embarrass students who don't know the answer and is calling on those who raise their hand first.
If your child feels left out, encourage him or her to join in - chances are they'll be more than welcome!
