subject: Confused About Why You Got Dumped? Discover The 4 Universal Mistakes Nearly Every Person Makes [print this page] Getting dumped can unleash a mixed bag of emotions on a person leaving him/her confused, sad and dejected. Often this emotional turmoil becomes so huge that one often cannot figure out why he/she got dumped in the first place. Where did he/she go wrong? Was it your clothes, your looks, your attitude or was it just you, all of you?
These questions need to be addressed and the sooner you get off the emotional roller coaster, the better will be your chances of moving on in life.
o Being the victim: Put a lid on the crying game. You need to get up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's normal to shed a few tears when your relationship ends, but it's not the end of the world. Life still moves on.
Give up the mantle of 'the victim' that you have given to yourself and begin picking up the pieces of your life. But under no circumstance should you call your ex and give him/her the lowdown on your miserable life.
o Not doing anything constructive: You can start picking up the pieces by engaging yourself with some activity. It can be anything...the main agenda is to keep yourself as occupied as possible so that you don't get tempted to call your ex.
o Being reclusive: Sitting at home and wishing things to change is not going to bear any results. If you want to get your life back and want to move on then you have to start going out and meeting people. Reconnect with your friends and try and make new ones.
Good company leads to one having a good time and that is what you should aim at having. Meeting new people will boost your self esteem and will help you to put a stop on the self doubt. Life is too short to be wasted shedding tears.
o Not trying new things: Don't be afraid to try new things. It could be a new workout regime, a new hair cut, a new job or travelling to a new place. Get some excitement back in your life and this time do it for yourself. New things make you more receptive and accepting of situations and people.
While doing all these things you will find that you do not have the time to think of your ex. Staying away from your ex is going to help you salvage your ego and self esteem from the recently suffered damage and who knows, your ex might see the new you and want to get back again. Only this time the decision rests with you!
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