subject: Do You Want Your Ex to Give You Another Shot? 7 Tips You Can Use to Convince Your Ex Right Away [print this page] Do You Want Your Ex to Give You Another Shot? 7 Tips You Can Use to Convince Your Ex Right Away
All we really need in life sometimes is just one more chance. Then again, that's what you said 23 chances ago. Either way, just like the genie is eventually going to get sick of granting you a million more wishes, start using your 'last' chance with your boyfriend to your advantage with these suggestions.
Step 1: Have Him Remember The Good Times: All he remembers now is that you dumped him for a carnival worker but you've got to imprint in his brain all the fun you had before that on the roller coasters. If he's stuck in a negative mode he'll never take you back so get him to think about the good times.
Step 2: Reverse What He Didn't Like: Your ex hopefully gave you a reason as to how you blew your last chance and why he broke up with you so in order to get another one, do some repair on that reason he gave you.
Step 3: With Charm Two spoons of flirting and a dash of self-confidence will have him yearning to give you another chance. Avoid being too needy and simply court your ex as if he wasn't your ex in order to rub that lamp another time.
Step 4: Sincerity: You told him you wouldn't cheat on him again the last 4 times you got together but every year the fair comes to town you break that promise again. If you want him to accept you back, make him believe that you won't screw it up again...and don't this time!
Step 5: Honesty: Don't try and hide the fact that you blew it, instead fess up and acknowledge that you made mistakes. Hopefully, he'll appreciate your honesty and will be impressed by the fact that you chose him over a carnie.
Step 6: Chance Or Opportunity? A chance implies that you will get together and just hope that things will work out. On the other hand, if you view it as an opportunity to show your man that you've improved and are a better person, you'll have a better 'chance' at success.
Step 7: What Are You Going To Do With The Chance: Don't cook the cake before you mix the ingredients in. Make sure you have a plan of attack in place if he truly does take you back into your life meaning spending more time together, being more thoughtful and skipping the fair this time around.
