subject: No Contact Rule Is the Best Way to Get Your Ex Back - It Is Almost Guaranteed To Work! [print this page] No Contact Rule Is the Best Way to Get Your Ex Back - It Is Almost Guaranteed To Work!
Right after a breakup, when looking for the best advice on how to get your ex back, you are likely to find a wide range of ideas as to the best way to go - many of them telling you how to better communicate your feelings or otherwise "talk it out" with your ex. But I'm here to give you some radically different, but proven effective advice called the No Contact Rule. This real means what the name implies, you will get your ex back by cutting off all contact with them. Confused yet? Read on for a bit of explanation.
Since you are no longer in an intimate relationship with your ex, you need to keep this in mind. This means that chances are, any communication you try to initiate with your ex right now is likely to backfire and actually ruin your chances to get back together. This is why the No Contact Rule is so effective. You won't have the opportunity to make one of those fatal relationship errors!
Rarely are breakups completely mutual or by any means, positive experiences. A lot of nasty things are said during the argument that led to the breakup, and you cannot take back what was said, nor can you get over your hurt feelings overnight. And neither can your ex. No Contact gives you the time you need to let go of the pain and hurt the breakup caused, which will allow you to heal, which definitely improves your chances of getting your ex back.
You both definitely need a cool down period before even considering communicating again. While it may be hard to deny your desire to "just see how he or she is doing", remember that phone call could either set you back in your attempts to get your ex back, or obliterate them completely.
As time with no contact passes on, you'll find your hurt feelings subsiding and you'll begin to miss your ex. Chances are, they are feeling the same way. Let them come to you. Spend your days with friends and family, and do what it takes to keep your mind active, focused, and positive. Soon enough, because of no contact, your ex will no longer be able to stand the silence and he or she will contact you. There is a good chance that they will be willing to do what it takes to get you back, for good.
