subject: How to Attract and Approach Women - Can You Magnetically Attract a Woman? [print this page] How to Attract and Approach Women - Can You Magnetically Attract a Woman?
You know, you will hear a lot of times that a guy that just seems to have a way with women, has a certain magnetic attraction that women just cannot seem to resist. I mean, sometimes, they guy will not even be remotely close to attractive himself, and yet, he will be able to attract the attention and the companionship of VERY beautiful women.
Did you ever wonder what makes that so?
Well, to be honest, I have gotten to know quite a few guys like this, and I can tell you, they are NOT born with this quality. It might seem like it all just comes naturally to them, but you can be sure that at one time, most of these guys were complete duds when it came to attracting women.
What did they do that made the change?
More often than not, they made a conscious decision to finally "get" it. They decided that they were no longer going to be seen as the goofy guy with a big heart, but as the heartthrob that women want to date. There is a clear distinction there.
You can be a GREAT guy and still not generate any kind of attraction with a woman. She can even end up saying things like, any woman would be stupid not to date you...and yet, she does not have those kinds of feelings for you.
What these guys, these naturals know better than most other men IS...being friends with a woman is NOT enough. You cannot be the kind of guy that women want to be friends with, you have to be the kind of guy that they want to date.
WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO MAKE A WOMAN WANT YOU...
That means that you are going to have to make some changes in how you act around women. You are going to have to change the way that women see you. If you don't, then you are going to end up being the kind of guy that women love to be friends with, but they do NOT want to date.